<![CDATA[R. B. Kiernan - The Musings]]>Mon, 10 Jul 2017 07:29:07 -0600Weebly<![CDATA["Has anything odd ever happened here?"]]>Fri, 05 Dec 2014 18:17:44 GMThttp://rbkiernan.com/the-musings/has-anything-odd-ever-happened-herePicture
"Has anything odd ever happened here?"


A True New Mexico Ghost Story





“Has anything…. odd… ever happened here?”

I've heard that question asked before, by a neighbor just before he moved out in the middle of the night, breaking a lease which he had only recently signed. A previous neighbor had also broken a lease and left. Now, again, I'm hearing that same question. I even asked it myself when I first moved here. Those first neighbors answered in the negative but still moved to another house very quickly. That's when I took a trip to the Nambé Trading Post, a mere stone's throw from where I live, to look at the merchandise and to learn what I could about my house and the area. As fate would have it, it was the owner's grandmother who built these casitas and he once lived in the one which I have been renting. That short conversation would have a greater impact on my life than many of the ones which I thought would be life changing. Yet somehow, it was also a validation which I desperately needed.

I had quite literally moved to New Mexico on a moment's notice. A week prior I had interviewed for a job and was told I needed to move in or near Santa Fe as soon as possible. That Friday, my friend, Dennis, helped me settle in a motel as Monday I would be starting my new job and hopping on a flight to El Paso for a week of training. That weekend, Dennis and I would be looking for a place for me to live. During the week prior, since the interview, I had been on Craig's List looking at properties I could rent. As I had been recently divorced, my credit had taken a hit and I knew I would probably be limited to where I could live. I e-mailed the properties which seemed like they might work and there were some owners who seemed willing to work with me. A woman who owned a little casita in Nambé was the first to respond with some charming photos of her property and didn't seem to take issue with my credit being less than stellar. In fact, she seemed more than eager for me to see this casita as quickly as possible.

That Friday evening, Dennis and I drove down from Colorado to Santa Fe. The next day we had seen several properties and the landlady of the casita decided to meet us so we could follow her to see it. Just turn onto the road for Nambé, make another turn right at the little cemetery and just a very short distance later we would be there. By Sunday, a check was being written for the deposit and rent on the casita. The grateful landlady, in turn, was being as helpful and charming as anyone could possibly be. It was that Monday morning that I was flying to El Paso.  That same week, upon returning to Santa Fe, I was buying a few supplies and a little inflatable mattress on which to sleep as my furniture and cats would not be coming down until sometime later in the month.

Nambé, to say the least, is a lovely and historic area. As I was learning, the Nambé Pueblo and lands were just a tiny distance off the property I am renting. Nambé, meaning "people of the rounded earth" has existed there since the 14th Century. The village of Nambé, where I am living, was once an original Spanish Land Grant and many of its descendants still live in their ancestral homes here. Time in New Mexico and especially in Nambé seems to move a bit more slowly. This was something which, in the chaos that had been my life, I was welcoming.

My tiny, rented casita is one of four casitas on a smallish plot of land which extends back to a river. Over 100 years old, fully renovated, mine has a high adobe wall and gate enclosing the front porch. High windows give light onto a small loft area. Old cottonwoods line the property and through them, I could glimpse the mountains. There were so many reasons this was the property where I wanted to live while starting my new life in New Mexico. The hope of stability in a lovely environment was top among them.

That first night I unpacked my few supplies and inflated the mattress. I believe I was in bed about the time it started to get dark, both due to exhaustion from a hectic couple of weeks and because the only lights I had were in the bedroom closets and in another room.

Actual sleep, however, was a different matter.

I kept awakening during the night after the same recurring nightmare: I knew I was on these lands but the casitas were not here. The outline of the landscape and the views still caused me to be certain where I was. It was dusk and I was watching a young Indian man and a much older white man make camp for the night. The Indian appeared to be a recent convert to Christianity. He was holding a long wooden pole with a wooden cross fixed atop it. I remember thinking in the dream that he seemed extremely proud to be holding this cross and was completely transfixed by it. During his concentration, the older man came up from behind him and slit his throat.

It is not my nature to watch extremely violent movies.  There was nothing I had seen nor read which would have put such a graphically violent image in my mind, yet there it was.  The dream played out over and over again that first night - and never again.  As silly as it sounds, I couldn't shake the feeling that I was watching actual events from a distant time.

The second night I was even more exhausted from not having slept and going full speed since that interview. I was in my little inflatable bed and must have dozed rather quickly. Sometime during the night I awoke due to what was the most ghastly smell I had ever experienced. It was hideous beyond reason - an overpowering stench of something horribly burned or burning mixed with a sickening sweet.... something. As the house was almost empty with only me, a suitcase and some clothes, water, and paper goods, I kept telling myself that there was nothing which could be causing such a stench...... AND WHY THE HELL IS IT SO COLD IN HERE?

Somewhere, in the darkness of the front room, I could hear crashes and bangs - sounds which I would have blamed on the cats if they had been here and had things which could be knocked over and broken.

There was absolutely nothing, not even furniture, in the other room.

The stench was so unbelievably strong it was to the point where I thought I might actually choke from it. I had decided to turn on the closet lights and leave them on for the remainder of the night. Though the crashes and bangs diminished, I could now distinctly hear the sound of heavy footsteps running up and down the stairs leading to the loft, combined with running sounds actually in the loft, directly above my head. Didn't get much sleep that night either. Welcome to my new home.

Within the next few nights, I would frequently be awakened by that same, ghastly odor mixed with the sickly sweetness. This often occurred along with the bitter coldness and the sounds of running and other various noises in the different rooms. Other nights, though, there would be nothing unusual, whatsoever. Often the stench which awoke me was nothing more than one of the many skunks which seemed to use this area as a maternity ward.

By the time Dennis and a friend had moved my furniture down from Colorado, it had been decided that my cats would stay with him until after the move as we didn't want to risk them either getting hurt or lost during this time of transition. By then, I was already starting to talk about the strange happenings at my place.  On one of the first nights I was finally able to sleep in my real bed, it jolted with such a force that I was nearly knocked off of it.  Again, I would have tried to blame this on the cats had they been here, but realistically, it was as if someone had body-slammed the bed. It was also very, very cold, but the sickly stench did not occur.

It was during this time I decided to stop at the trading post. I had introduced myself to the owner and mentioned that I had just moved into a place nearby. Upon further discussion, I learned these casitas had been built by his grandmother and it is part of his family heritage - and that I was actually living in the casita where he had once lived. He mentioned what a nice job the new landlady had done in renovating them. At that point, I could hold back no longer.

"Um, do you know, has anything....odd... ever happened here?"

"Oh yes, your house is haunted."

And with those six words, I had confirmation of what I truly had already known but couldn't make myself admit.

He didn't want to discuss much and had seemed cagey, though he was very nice and somewhat curious when I was discussing where I was living. However, that one question essentially ended the conversation. He did add that it was the casita diagonal from me which REALLY seemed to have the issues. This is the same casita which has never finished being renovated.

The casita where no one lives nor has lived in quite some time.

As I was learning from books and my own research, Nambé has this reputation. I would discover that Nambé was known for the number of witches who were known to have lived here. Evil witches. In one case, cannibal witches. I would read about two men from Nambé who were executed for eating small children in order to practice their craft. Another witch was burned alive in her house. Supposedly, she had evil dolls hidden throughout the house which came to life and tried to escape. There are many other alleged cases of witchcraft in the village. One book describes Nambé as "the Twilight Zone of the Southwest". Another book I had found shortly after I had moved is called "More Mysteries and Miracles of New Mexico", by Jack Kutz. In it, the very first story is about a divorced woman who moved into an old adobe house in Nambé, surrounded by cottonwoods and a high adobe wall. Shortly after moving in, she begins to have strange and frightening occurrences. Though I don't believe the description of her house too closely matches my own, one thing which caught my attention what that she described being plagued by a horrible stench "like something from the depths of hell."

I couldn't have phrased it better myself.

Shortly thereafter, Dennis finally came down with my cats and stayed to visit for a while (I suspect because he knew he would truly miss my cats and their guardian human). More than a month had passed since I had moved into the casita and I had only had this conversation with the owner of the trading post a few days prior. As could be expected, he took these stories with more than a few grains of salt. He's never lived it and I do seem to be prone to ending up at places which have paranormal happenings. I have lived in ghost stories in the past. This, however, was something much more powerful and incredibly more frightening.

It was, surprisingly, one afternoon while he was visiting that the overpowering stench returned from out of nowhere. There was no sudden chill and no other odd occurrences, yet Dennis described it as being like the smell of a crematorium. As it was broad daylight, I went outside to investigate, but there was absolutely no odor. It seemed to simply materialize inside the center of my bedroom and spread throughout the main level of the house. As my bedroom window was open, I walked outside to that window and noticed there was no stench while standing next to the screen.

As Dennis would comment, it was the kind of stench which not only seemed to be something we could taste but something which also seemed to leave a residue inside our noses. Horrifying. Disgusting--but as the months would pass, less frequent. That's the thing about living here. There can be extreme activity lasting anywhere from part of a night to every night for over a month, as well as long periods of absolutely nothing. I seem to think it's like some sort of poltergeist which keeps returning and yet I sense there is more than one entity.  These entities are either connected to the casita or are connected to the land, both inside and outside.

About 7 weeks ago my cat died. Though he was 17, to me it was still a shock when I took him to the vet and they determined there was nothing more I could do for him. In tears, I decided to put him down.

I had lost the job for which I had moved to New Mexico back in April, four days before my birthday.  At this time, another job to which I had applied had been stringing me along for weeks, calling me for a second interview to occur the day after I lost my cat. I had no money, no food and nowhere to go. Being in this kind of shape and quite literally falling apart, Dennis came down to visit and help for a few days. As his car broke down shortly after he arrived, he ended up staying for three weeks.

On one of those first, sad nights, he was helping me tidy up my bedroom when he noticed that a bottle of water I had been drinking had, sometime in the days prior, rolled under the bed. He joked, sarcastically, if I liked storing my water under the bed and asked if I was still planning on drinking it. As the lid had been securely tightened and the water barely touched, I had him put it back on my bedside table.


Later that night, I had gone to bed and was trying desperately to fall asleep, only too aware that I was in pain and extremely restless. That is when I very clearly heard an older woman's nicotine voice ask me sarcastically, "Are you still planning on drinking that water?" I wanted to reply but couldn't. Realistically, I couldn't swear that I wasn't half asleep and that this was, therefore, a dream.  Still, I must also admit while in that state, dreamy voices are anything but clear and that I definitely seemed awake enough to be aware of my physical pain and of how badly I wanted to sleep. I wish I had a voice-activated tape recorder to know for certain if this truly occurred. This had been one of many times I wished I had one.  

As is his custom, Dennis was up late one night and decided to work on his car when my neighbor, who also works until late at night, came home from his shift. He started asking Dennis some questions and Dennis thought it would be best for him to ask me.

"Has anything......odd..... ever happened here?"

"Yes, these casitas are haunted."

We discussed what the owner of the trading post had said, what the books said and what happened to me. I told him about coming home at night and seeing my moonlit shadow cast into the grasses--and another shadow belonging to someone or something else appear beside it when no one and nothing was around. I told him about seeing shadowy figures along the trees bordering the property.  I also mentioned the night I rested on the love seat with my front door open, then needing to get up to close and lock the door after hearing the most ghastly sounds coming from outside. Sounds which, even at the time, I couldn't describe.  I explained how I could no longer sleep, even in the summer, with the windows open. 


We discussed the time I was driving home late on a beautiful June night during the full moon, the fields and trees so clearly visible from its radiance at these altitudes.  This is when I discovered that our little cemetery, the one right by our casitas, appeared pitch black in spite of the surrounding light. No rational explanation for why the fields and homes around it would simply glow while it remained completely dark. For that matter, no rational explanation for why my headlights suddenly dimmed while I was driving past. Ah, almost home. Get inside and lock the door, again.

The neighbor told me that for 45 days straight after his baby was born, he and his family would hear the sounds of heavy footsteps right outside their house. They could clearly hear limbs breaking and heavy breathing but never saw another person. They even threw rocks at whatever it was, but this was no deterrent. Dennis would admit that he also heard sounds from that area during the nights he was working on his car, but he had blamed it on livestock.  


None of the neighbors have any livestock and nothing was ever seen.

The neighbor hinted that there were other things which were occurring but were not discussed, leaving me with the impression that something may have been seen up in my loft. He said he was considering breaking lease and has been home very little since this discussion. A previous neighbor indicated that these incidents were often worse when I wasn't at home.  This might have been due to my smudging the house when I was aware of any unusual activity.  It might not have liked that. During one major smudging, the front door slammed shut even though there wasn't even a breeze. I do know that after I had spent the night at a friend's house in Albuquerque after a long day's visit, I came home the next morning to find my cat hiding under my furniture, crying and terrified.

Was it simply that she was afraid of being home, alone, now that my other cat died? Did something scare her? Did something hurt her? I will never again leave her by herself, at night, in that house.

What can be said about all of this? It took some odd experiences for me to look for a job in New Mexico. Some very bad experiences seem to be keeping me here. I'm out of money and need to move, possibly back to Colorado, if there was only some way to do it.

It seems as though I've had such horrific luck living here but is it really due to Nambé's violent and bloody past.  Is it truly a haunting or is it New Mexico being....well... New Mexico? So many people are having a dreadfully hard time now. The haunting may just be stress coupled with me needing to blame all of this on something outside of me and yet....

And yet.... countless people have been having these experiences here long before I arrived on the scene. Whatever is inside the house seems angry though not, necessarily, hostile. Whatever is outside is another story. Seeing the shadow people, the feeling I had was that I was witnessing something absolutely evil - something which would hurt me if it could. The ghastly noises from outside followed by a chorus of dogs barking and growling only adds to that fear of an unknown and unnamed horror. Somehow, I suspect this land of the 100-year-old adobe and giant cottonwoods knows a secret which it won't, quite, reveal. My time here among them is at an end. It's time to move on now.



RBK notes: It was the night of October 27th-28th, 2009, that I wrote and published this honest (if rather hastily-written) account on Open Salon.  Later that day I published it on my own personal blog, discussing what was and still remains the scariest time of my life. Very few edits have happened since that time.  You can read about When Grief Inspires a Ghost Story to understand exactly all of the events that led to the creation of a paranormal thriller.

Two months after this account was written, I did return to my home in Colorado.  Shortly thereafter, I was contacted by the woman who moved into that casita after I had left, specifically asking me if I had any "unusual" events while I was living there.  She also broke her lease and left, as had the neighbor whom I mentioned in this account.  I am aware that these casitas keep coming back onto the market, no one staying there for any length of time.  It would appear this is a story that is still continuing...




Comments and feedback are always appreciated.  Thank you.












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<![CDATA[Dead by any other Name]]>Thu, 20 Nov 2014 18:37:11 GMThttp://rbkiernan.com/the-musings/dead-by-any-other-name
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     One phone call in the middle of the night can change your world.
     Discovering that call came from a dead friend can change your reality.



Those were the words I used to reach potential fans for my author's page on Facebook, hoping to generate interest for the paranormal thriller I was writing to honor a friend. 

Then I got a response from a woman who took offense that I used the word ‘dead’, explaining that anyone who has suffered a loss would prefer the term ‘passed away.’

While I am truly sorry for her loss, I have never lived in a world that offered Passed Away Certificates, nor would I ever care to see Night of the Living Lost -- entirely because it sounds like the story of someone who wouldn't stop for directions. Dead is dead, not mattering one iota whether there is heaven, hell, or any scrap of consciousness that remains. 

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On September 28th, exactly one week after we had this conversation, my sister-in-law died. Though she had suffered from serious illness for most of her life and had spent the last several months in and out of hospitals and a physical rehabilitation center, the news still came as a ghastly surprise. All of my time and effort immediately went toward comforting my grieving brother, even setting up a crowdfunding campaign to help him recover some of the many expenses he had accrued to care for her. I then tasked myself with letting the other family members know that there had been another tragedy.
 
“It is with a heavy heart I must say that my sister-in-law, Angela, died yesterday evening.”

Died’. ‘Passed away’ would make it seem far more peaceful than is the ever case when a 44-year-old woman is suddenly no longer with us. While I used the obligatory kinder expressions when talking to some of our older and more sensitive family members, I felt those terms were dishonest. She is gone and will forever remain in the past-tense. Nothing will ever be new with her. Dead, by any other name, remains the same.

As I had explained in an earlier post, I am no stranger to grief – having lost 15 close friends and family members since 2006, including the one friend whose death inspired me to write a novel. Angela’s family had also just lost their dad a few months prior, whereas we lost our father last year and a beloved friend last month. When I say that Death has me on auto-dial, I’m not kidding. Though I take no comfort in religion, I have no qualms thinking of Death as a living entity. It is life that so often seems as the abnormality.

My brother’s overwhelming sorrow over the loss of his wife was something I worried might kill him. I put my own life on hold and essentially called in the cavalry -- i.e., all of his old friends -- to make certain we wouldn't experience another tragedy. In between the phone calls, working his crowdfunding campaign, and managing the last-minute travel to Oregon, I learned something unexpected: He wasn't actually suicidal, entirely because of an atheism so profound that he has developed a crippling phobia about dying.

Hallelujah?

What is Religion without Death?



I consider myself to be lucky – though it has been a dark form of luck: By experiencing some truly terrifying events, I have been forced to question all of my previous notions about death. My life has been haunted by things which exist on the fringes of conventional wisdom. One of my bigger regrets is that I cannot see through adult eyes those things I saw as a child, dashing the hopes these might help me understand certain mysteries. My time living in a part of New Mexico that had a strange reputation only further cemented the realization that I do not know as much as I had once assumed.

I try to comfort myself by remembering that our deaths are either followed by something or nothing: If something happens, there is no need for worry; If nothing happens, by definition, we will be unaware. Of course, none of this diminishes the horror of facing a complete and permanent lack of consciousness. What religion would exist without the fear of death? It is religion, or a lack there-of, that has defined the parameters of how we even discuss our own mortality.

Religion might not exist without the fear of death, but evolution would never happen without a struggle for life.

Our words reflect our chosen realities. ‘Passed away’ may be the ideal expression for someone who truly believes a friend or loved one is passing to the other side -- usually with the assumption we will be seeing that person, again. ‘Dead’ speaks of an absolute finality. Near-death experiences and life after death are the possibilities that the story can continue, but these would have no meaning without the belief that death is the period finalizing the last sentence of our life’s story. That one word carries so much depth and so much wonder that we cheat ourselves when we deny its meaning. That, to me, seems like the ultimate betrayal.  




Comments and feedback are always appreciated.  Thank you.



(This editorial was originally written and published on Medium.com and Open Salon.)



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<![CDATA[When Grief Inspires a Ghost Story:  Creating a novel once death has you an auto-dial.]]>Mon, 27 Oct 2014 22:58:20 GMThttp://rbkiernan.com/the-musings/when-death-has-you-on-auto-dialPicture
My story begins, as so many do, by a phone call in the middle of the night. Any person who has ever received that phone call can tell you he will never again resent being awakened by a wrong number. These calls rarely offer good news, yet it seems a phone ringing in the darkness has some constitutional right to be answered.

Perhaps the greatest irony is that it took me over two weeks to appreciate the importance of that one conversation. The sheer oddity of it all was how his calling me didn't seem terribly odd at the time. As one of my closest friends wanted to talk at some ungodly hour, I was there to listen.

That the call failed to appear on my Caller ID was just one more bit of oddness I had initially overlooked.

This was during a time I was already experiencing some Highly Unusual Events while living in an old adobe home in New Mexico. The sheer unusualness of it all being something that would only be discussed in whispers – by neighbors before they would break lease and leave during the night. Sean had been eager for me to write about those experiences, urging me to do so throughout the year and stressing that same request during this last conversation.

The night of October 27th was a night I was unable to sleep, the words of my account were churning over in my mind, demanding to be put on paper. By the early morning hours of October 28th, I had published on Open Salon my account of what it was like to live my own ghost story, beginning with the words I had only uttered to others in the area:

“Has anything odd ever happened here?”


The night of October 27th was also the night Sean would die in his sleep.

More than two weeks had passed before I learned of his death, making that discovery simply because I checked his status on Facebook and learned of his memorial service the day prior. The combination of shock and the strangeness of that last conversation left me completely derailed. I actually called him, expecting him to answer, letting me know if it was true he was dead or if it were all some horrible misunderstanding. To this day, I’m still not entirely sure why he died. This hasn't prevented me from spending countless sleepless nights contemplating the million “what ifs” that might have kept him alive.

“What ifs” are a layer of hell, torturing us with countless better possibilities we might have had – if we had done things differently – if we had any notion that something was horribly wrong. That is exactly when I became plagued with a new “what if” that defied any sense of reason:

“What if he was already dead when I received that phone call?”

I admit I became completely unhinged when I remembered his name had never appeared on that Caller ID.  It took me checking some Yahoo text messages we had sent as an afterthought upon the completion of our call that I realized we had spoken exactly two nights prior to his passing.

I’m not supposed to be the person who even considers such thoughts.  I have always been overly-secular, believing healthy skepticism is something we often lack.   This still does not change the fact that I had written an account of some extremely strange events the very night -- and likely at the very time -- one of my closest friends had died. I feel my words may well have echoed whatever final thoughts plagued him that night.

“What if he was already dead when I received that phone call?” That question didn't go away even after I knew the answer. It was a question that consumed me, demanding I expand upon it and breathe into it a life of its own. Sometimes, in the midst of grief, we can find a catalyst for creativity.

This is a story that was conceived in sorrow, beginning with those first “what if” questions and all the questions that followed. In one of life’s greater ironies, I am going from being a full-time ghostwriter to someone who is writing full-time about ghosts. I have spent years trying to kill this project, reminding myself of my professional reputation.  It is far easier to write under another’s name and use that voice to convey a message. Ghostwriting is a blessing in anonymity. It is far harder to put your own voice into a work that is dear to your heart, asking to be judged by your flaws. This is a story that would simply not exist if I had been better at coping with a friend's death.

Grief is a living, tangible thing, of which I am no stranger. With the death of my sister-in-law last month, a dear friend’s passing the month before, and my father’s death last year, I've come to the morbid realization that I've lost 15 close friends and family members since 2006 – 12 of whom have passed away beginning in 2009.

When death has you on auto-dial, your list of dedications becomes disturbingly long.  Being consumed in that reality is how a ghost story was born.




Questions and comments are always greatly appreciated!  Thank you.


This article was originally written and published on Medium.com













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<![CDATA[A Long, Strange Trip.  ]]>Fri, 19 Sep 2014 19:59:58 GMThttp://rbkiernan.com/the-musings/a-long-strange-tripPicture
I had no idea when I left my home in Colorado to start a new life in New Mexico that I would immediately be living my own ghost story.  In the months that followed, I twice watched neighbors break their lease to get away from some unknown fright that still hasn't adequately been described.  There are places that, for whatever reason, just seem wrong.  It's a wrongness I still don't understand.

My novel isn't about those events -- those have already been described in enough detail in the account I wrote for a friend, ironically doing that writing on the night he died.  No, the only final thing I can add about time is that, as much as I miss New Mexico -- and hope to move back there -- I doubt I could ever again live in that specific village and would even be loathe to visit it after dark.  Some places should just be left alone.

These odd events became the foundation for Hell's Coil; the death of my friend became its inspiration.  (That story has also been told.)  If this is a novel born out of grief, it has been nurtured by the life that followed as I've picked up the pieces and moved on.  Within 18 months of having moved to New Mexico, I had been fired from that job, one of my two cats had died from advanced age, I lost two close friends -- including the one whose death inspired my work, and I had returned to another friend's home where I had previously been living in the Colorado Rockies. In the two months that followed, I lost another very dear friend as well as a beloved aunt.  I also became a self-employed writer, finally accepting the the simple truth that my happiness involved working for myself doing something I love.  (I should note that my one of my first bosses told me, in my early 20s, that I needed to work as a writer.  It has taken some valiant attempts to live a more normal -- i.e., respectable -- life to realize that she was right.)  I think if we have any creative streak inside of us, we must find a way to nurture it or we will go mad.  I wonder what stories we would tell and what we would create, if we gave
ourselves permission to step outside the boundaries we impose upon ourselves?  

I have been back in Colorado for almost five years, still missing the friend who made living here so much fun.  As was the case prior to my moving to New Mexico, most of my belongings are in storage -- this time in a POD down in Albuquerque.  The curious lesson is that I have learned just how much I can do without and not even miss, as long as I am happy with my life's progress.  I have come full circle and am starting the next loop.  It's been a long, strange trip.



Questions and comments are always greatly appreciated!  Thank you.





(Above photo taken of my cat while she was perched on my bedroom door, back in New Mexico.)  

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